life is a learning

with time we grow old and but simultaneous we learning a lot too. Somedays before i met one of my friend,she is looking very dull and sad mood,so i asked what happened.she is very silent.In mean while i start remembering my old days when we both are reading, there is lot of difference which can be easily marked from now. That is time she is full bindass, she is good in reading,so everybody likes her and i can say she is the one of topper in B.Pharm. Now also she is in job and have good repo in office too,not only she is good in reading she is also good in making friends and i can tell she is taking more time to have friends but if once she mixed with others she can't forget others. She is everytime trying her best to makes other happy though she is in very bad conditions. After a long gap she smile and reply very i am become old may be thats the reason.i laughed and told it is not looking good in your voice........
Then we go to one park and sit there i force her a lot to tell the things what happened, then she told ssomething,which when i heard i feel this type of people are also there in the world. She told like that during her job she have good friendship with one of the boy who is very good,very caring and as a man we can tell he is very good.As she close to her,she getting attached day by day,though other people dont like much as the boy is very shy,not mixing much with people and but still she try her best to make him good in front of others and even so many times fighting with others for that boy.So as this process going well, she develops some feelings for him and he try her best as she think the same from the other side with many reason.But when she told directly and talk to that guy he reject her as she is not looking good and not have good height,though the guy also very short height but still he wants a long and tall girl to marry,what a silly reason by telling that she start laughing but i can feel the sadness inside her heart and i can see the falling tears on her eyes. But still she is praying for that guy may god give the girl he wants.
She told previously i heard very difficult to know a boy but now i can understand the thing better.The reason the boy told is not only make her sad but also reduce her confidence and make her ill. When she join the job how happy she is and she is growing due to her good talent but now she told her job is going very bad now as she is not getting any interest now.No mood to growing nothing,On her mind only one thing is moving why he tell like this?He is not like that ?
After listening the total story i try my best to convince her but now she is unable overcome also as she totally loose her confidence as she has very good faith on him which now lost.
She told me i am trying my best to overcome but as friend i can understand her situation and i can read her sad face, falling tears and breaking hearts.
Oh god help me .............i dont want to see her in growing in destuctive way.........That is the only thing i can pray to god............
I thing this story is totally giving a support to the title of my blog.........